I'm not good in forgetting (eg, bad events). I forgive easily but not everyone. For decades, I did not love myself (eg, failed marriage). My introspection, following my 2013 burnout and subsequent depression, allowed me to achieve philautia or self-love. Narcissism is an extreme form of self-love and/but without any doubt. Writing the aforementioned paragraph made...
Introspection
The 3 roads to Wisdom (2)
12 Nov, 2021
While looking for the Confucius quote for Wednesday's blog on a simple vs complicated life, I suddenly noticed this one at the top: "By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.” In 2019, I wrote part one of this blog, The 3 roads to Wisdom,...
Does your shadow ever leave you?
28 Oct, 2021
Our shadow is a nickname for our past and/or our reputation. Rephrasing my blog title's question results in: - Can you escape your past? (eg, guilt & shame, regret & remorse)- Can you change who and/or what you are? (eg, thief, murderer) A Google search revealed a Chinese Taoist story from an ancient book named after its author Master Zhuang Zhou. The book...
The Dutch childcare benefits scandal
27 Oct, 2021
The childcare benefits scandal that toppled the (still outgoing) Dutch Cabinet is still expanding. At least 1,115 children have been taken away from their families due to that same scandal. These parents lost everything while they were being drowned in debt, following clawback activities by the Dutch tax authorities. A friend told me that the Belgian approach is the...
Introspection
7 Oct, 2021
A recent Psyche article revealed something unexpected: "67 per cent of the men and 25 per cent of the women opted to intentionally shock themselves, rather than spend a short period of time alone with their thoughts." Hence, introspection is far from common (for men). Apparently, I'm an exception. There are two primal emotions in life: Fear and Love (eg, my 2016...
How do you help yourself?
6 Oct, 2021
At this time, someone may consider asking me: how do you help yourself? For some, this question will just be theoretical. For others, its answer will hopefully translate into a practical tool. My answer will primarily be helpful for the ones who want to survive. The ones in a victim role may say that they need or want help but their intentions will - sooner or later...
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Life is a revolving door
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Dutch PM: “What more can I do??”
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Is politiek nog relevant in Nederland?
The SpaceTime dimension and the alternate Energy-Matter dimension
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Is consciousness a dimension not limited by space and time?
The asymptomatic Covid anomaly
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Everything follows Why (7): the DIKW model
No More Fear of Dying
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Ideology vs pragmatism
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2019 corona virus versus 1918 Spanish flu
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Awakening – a conceptual framework
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Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish (2)
One question says more than a thousand answers
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Humanoid sapiens, our future descendants
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The ignorance of Nationalism and arrogance of Globalism
Arrogance of Left and Ignorance of Right
You can only hurt someone with the truth
Sumerian civilization (5): Soul vs Spirit
Everything follows Why
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A brief narrative of the future
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The Great Flood (16,000 BC – 4,000 BC)
The meaning of Life = living a meaningful life
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The Seven Stages of Love – for Men
Love – a 7th Belief system
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Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
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