Tijdens de KOMP gesprekken met mijn moeder, vraag ik haar vaak of ze nog nieuws heeft. Regelmatig antwoordt ze met: “Nee, helaas niet.” Op zich begrijp ik dat wel want ook in mijn leven heb ik “weinig nieuws”. Toch reageer ik dan naar mijn moeder met: “Geen nieuws is goed nieuws, mam”. Meestal begrijpt ze die uitdrukking wel en is ze het ermee eens. Soms vraagt ze...
Ik heb geen wonden; ik heb slechts herinneringen. Daarom mijn uitroepteken en vraagteken hierboven. De meeste herinneringen betreffen het overweldigende “gevoel” van gelukkig zijn. Ik hoop dat die herinneringen zullen blijven. De tijd zal ook nieuwe herinneringen brengen. Het vergeten van mijn oude herinneringen ligt daarom op de loer. Ik vermoed dat het gezegde...
This thought entered my mind several hours after receiving her e-mail announcing her break-up with me. Her fear has won from her happiness. My happiness is still around, despite my initial disbelief and my reluctant anger. I will not start step 3 bargaining (ie, DABDA) for her return. She asked me to respect her decision. Actually, I’m expecting that her regret and...
Since Valentine's Day, I'm no longer single. The unexpected has happened. I think, feel and believe that I have found my (soul) mate. Before meeting each other, we have been talking for very many hours. The 3-dimensional check - see my 2015 blog The 7 Hurdles - has evidenced what I feel. Her Chinese -Western zodiac and mine are very compatible: "A Dog is a wonderful...
I think, feel and believe that I have lost the art of compromising; at least in Love. Nowadays, I prefer being alone. My solitude has - almost - become a principle. I suppose that (too many) disappointments and (too high) expectations (ie, in Love) are reasons for my lacking willingness to compromise. My 2019 view was different: compromising as an allocation of...
For quite some time, I've been writing about the similarities between Life, Nature and the Universe (eg, human brain vs Universe). In my view, such similarities are to be expected when you believe in a blueprint of Life, Nature & the Universe. Below, several articles about the similarities between the human brain and the Universe: 2020: Study Maps The Odd...
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