I think, feel and believe that I have lost the art of compromising; at least in Love. Nowadays, I prefer being alone. My solitude has - almost - become a principle. I suppose that (too many) disappointments and (too high) expectations (ie, in Love) are reasons for my lacking willingness to compromise. My 2019 view was different: compromising as an allocation of...
Expectations

The wheel of Life, Nature & Universe
For quite some time, I've been writing about the similarities between Life, Nature and the Universe (eg, human brain vs Universe). In my view, such similarities are to be expected when you believe in a blueprint of Life, Nature & the Universe. Below, several articles about the similarities between the human brain and the Universe: 2020: Study Maps The Odd...

Managing expectations (4)
Quite recently, I started using the words "managing expectations" again. I think, feel, and believe those words are related to revealing (a part of) our intentions. Especially "things" that we no longer need, want or believe in. To my surprise, those words never resulted in a blog - until now. In my view, it's impossible for anyone not having expectations....
Expectations (3) and reciprocity
I just wondered if it’s possible having no or low expectations (about others). Perhaps, having low expectations about yourself will result in low expectations about others - and vice versa. Hence, expectations and reciprocity seem quite related. The aforementioned may explain my "issue" in life: I have high expectations about myself, and lowering my expectations...

Unexpectedness vs human need for Control
Sometimes, something unexpected happens in your life that shakes your feeling of being and/or having (self) Control. Such changes can either be negative or positive. I suppose that we refer to surprises in case of positive changes. Negative changes have several nicknames (eg, shock). In my view, Change is the default in Life, Nature & the Universe, and its...

The quality of Love
Just before starting to write this blog, the title above entered my mind. I'm still contemplating on that title and/but it feels good. In 2022, I published a blog in line with today's blog: The road to self-love or philautia. My road was very long. Most likely, it's (very) long for (most) others as well. The word self in self-love has a negative connotation due to...

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