Bovenstaande vraag was haar antwoord op mijn vraag aan haar of zij nog een Nederlands onderwerp voor mij had. Zij vroeg mij of ik dit onderwerp wilde koppelen aan mijn blog van woensdag: Single by choice, circumstances, or …… (2). Die koppeling speelt ook bij mij. Ik vermoed dat haar vraag bij veel mensen van 60+ leeft. Daarover praten is echter lastig. Die vraag is...
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Single by choice, circumstances, or …… (2)
14 Jan, 2026
Recently, someone asked me if I am single by choice. My simple reply: NO. I referred her to my 2022 blog Single: by choice, circumstances, or both? Somewhat later, I had a weird thought: is it possible there might be a third reason for being single rather than choice or circumstances? And which? Albeit somewhat reluctantly, I'm inclined to argue with a (provisional)...

The fundamental lack of trust between men and women (2)
13 Jan, 2026
In 2015, I wrote The fundamental lack of trust between men and women. Today, my 2026 update that includes: (1) Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus (1992), and (2) my 2022 blog The 7 elements that define the type of relationship. My 2019 diagram (below) was/is too complicated. My 2019 blog: Lessons in Love (2) – female insecurities Bridging the 7 elements that...

Types of Love in terms of emotion and ratio
8 Jan, 2026
Over the years, several of my former friends (F+M) have changed boxes in my diagram below. Today, I'm wondering if empathy is an intermediate step towards indifference. Indifference can also be a blessing rather than a curse. Indifference clears the mind, including the bad memories. My inspiration urged me to make this diagram. I asked a few friends about our spot...
Transport
6 Jan, 2026
Until now, I've never written about Transport; just about automotive. My blogs about Light (eg, sunlight) have (slowly) changed my perspective. Transport may well be the (eternal) "bridge" between Space & Time (eg, travel). Is Transport just a functionality? Or more than that? Most lifeforms can move around (eg, flying, swimming, walking). Some lifeforms (eg,...

Conceptual Framework / Theory of Everything – 2025 update
5 Jan, 2026
It's the time of the year to summarize my thinking and especially regarding my Conceptual Framework and my Theory of Everything. I decided to combine both concepts in my diagram below. Clearly, the bottom part - including Electromagnetism, Gravity and Light - needs further thinking. While writing, I received a sudden brainwave: update the (draft) diagram by...

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