Recently, someone asked me if I am single by choice. My simple reply: NO. I referred her to my 2022 blog Single: by choice, circumstances, or both? Somewhat later, I had a weird thought: is it possible there might be a third reason for being single rather than choice or circumstances? And which?
Albeit somewhat reluctantly, I’m inclined to argue with a (provisional) YES.
The reasons for my Yes relate to these concepts:
- Body, Mind & Soul;
- Consciousness: universal rather than individual;
- Love, Knowledge & Power;
- Needs, Wants & Beliefs;
- Trialism, dualism and monism.
Those concepts use a triangle and three dimensions. Hence, trialism.
After preparing my diagram (right), I’m convinced my answer should indeed be a YES.

My (initial) weird thought included a possible third reason: divine intervention, which would match universal consciousness – or panpsychism. Hence, my reluctance in acceptance because accepting divine intervention as a 3rd reason for my failed relationships is (very) difficult – for me.
The Creator Has a Master Plan (1970) by Leon Thomas
artist, lyrics, video, Wiki-artist, Wiki-album+song
The creator has a master plan— peace and
Happiness for every man
The creator makes but one demand, happiness thru
All the land
Note: all markings (bold, italic, underlining) by LO unless in quotes or stated otherwise

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