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I need and want a break

The rollercoaster of solitude and loneliness (7)

Wishing you a happy, healthy and loving 2025

Einde van een tijdperk

The rollercoaster of solitude and loneliness (6)

Birds of a feather flock together

Talk too much

Tijd voor verandering

Wie past er in mijn leven en waarom?

I don’t need, want or believe in an “everything” app

When is our life completed?

Mijn andere ik

When I’m Sixty Four

The second first chance

The Fog

Life’s too short for conventions

Nothing to lose

Does inspiration have an expiration date?

“Are you alright?”

Criticism

The final taboo

Sensitive

A holistic view on dating

Negativity: not forgetting + not forgiving + not loving (yourself)

1960 What? by Gregory Porter

Time Out

Self-sabotaging

Is there a problem??

The shadow over any past relationship

What are the odds in Love?

I’m drowning in my nostalgia

Life is a journey along its destinations

Strong people don’t need help, do they?

Get a grip on myself

When did I stop loving you

Why can’t I feel comfortably numb?

No More Fear of Dying

Ideology vs pragmatism

Lust for Life

Paradise: Love & Hate

The weakness in me

Desperately seeking

Saviour complex

Interracial relationships

Taking a break

The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.

The lone wolf looking for love dilemma

That loving feeling

Time, the rhythm of life

Shattered illusions

Only fools rush into love

Never say never again

Navigating life by emotions, validating by ratio

My melancholic mood of missing and longing

A new milestone: 2,000 published blogs

Hurt

Men can’t stand to be alone after a break-up or divorce

My identity (2): “You’re aimless”

Reflections on Time

“You are very intelligent, aren’t you?”

Serendipity of the mind

Je m’en fous

Confidence and vulnerability

Silent sorrow

One question says more than a thousand answers

Doubt vs certainty

Happiness and satisfaction (4)

Happiness and satisfaction (3)

Happiness and satisfaction (2)

Happiness and satisfaction

You can take the boy out of the country……

Domino stones

What do I want?? Something to believe in…..

Stockholm syndrome in relationships

Making amends vs reconciliation

The Paradox of Choice

The autumn of my years

Dogs and cats

Time to think

Vaccines – the Truth as a Belief system

I am confused (2)

I am confused

Acceptance

Marriage

Rejection (1) – the hurting

Stress

Soul 2 Soul

Everything follows Why

Soulmates

The Right Woman

The rollercoaster of Solitude and Loneliness (3)

Open letter to my readers

Changing my belief

Tired

Anger Management

Your own worst enemy

CFO pitfalls

I am lucky

False Prophets

The lesser of two evils

Indifference

The future of smartphones

Person vs personality (traits)

Listening

Joan (6) – Rhythm of Life

Joan (5) – Rest In Peace, my very dear friend

Sorrow

What is the purpose of death? (3)

What is the purpose of death? (2)

What is the purpose of death? (1)

Everything used to be better………

Dignity and mercy

Rejection and role reversal

The rollercoaster of Solitude and Loneliness

Intelligence vs Wisdom

Age is nothing but a number

Distrust

Teardrops

Sometimes Love is not enough

Who likes insults anyway??

Life and Death

The Silent Treatment (2)

Human Capital

Identity and skin colour

Achilles heel

Mind Games

All or Nothing

A future without jobs (part 2)

Commitment issues

Givers and Takers

How are you?

I am only doing it for you……..

The “what if” question

Interconnectedness

Palpable emptiness

How do you know if you love(d) someone?

Intelligence and/versus Love

Relationships and money issues

Right to be wrong

The meaning of Life = living a meaningful life

The Age of Maturity

Faith Hope & Love

Damaged goods

Letting go

Fragile

The Silent Treatment

I miss you

Growing old – part 2

Technological Revolution (1800-2100) – part 2

Can you love someone else if you don’t love yourself?

Keeping your distance

Self-awareness

Milestone: 20,000 page views

Liberté, égalité, fraternité

Symbolism – Friday 13 November 2015

We need to talk…………

Nicknames

Voices – the mirror of our masculinity (or femininity)

What’s your story?

Wasted Time

Forgive and Forget

In pursuit of happiness

Future

Hatred

Being tested

You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with

Jealousy

Saying “NO”

Show some emotion

Why do we procrastinate?

Sweet dreams

I’m a Believer

Guilt

The AND / OR dilemma

The 7 Hurdles

Feeling exposed

Apologies and the 7 reasons for non-apologists

Choices

Expectations

Mistakes versus Lessons Learned

The dark side

Solitude

Honesty

Our individual purpose

Adieu

How pain defines us

Relationships – purpose

The Heart of the Matter

The road to recovery from a depression or burn-out

Neutrality – clean hands in a dirty war

Hiding in my shell

Sabbatical

Reversed bounty – skin colour part 2

Growing old

Kenya – tribalism and national interests

Traumatised

The Seven Stages of Love – for Men

Fear and Hope. Hope and Fear.

Success and Failure

Family businesses

The head-heart dilemma

Addicted to Love

Eat, Pray, Love

Role of Finance

Budgeting – breaking bad behaviour

Private versus Public companies

To Whom It May Concern

Kenya

March 1960 – The Considerate Piscean Rat Personality

Geloof, Hoop en Liefde

Papa, ik lijk steeds meer op jou (Stef Bos, 1991)

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